How can you be okay with everything, even the hard times?

 

Life is what it is.

Every one of us is here on a journey where anything can happen at any moment and nobody is going to warn us about it, not even at the moment of our death.

So, it’s useless to label stuff as good or bad, and let external things affect us and decide for us how we have to feel.

Stop giving control of your life to external things.

Make the conscious choice of not judging anything and just accepting what comes your way as what you have desired to happen and embrace it whatever it is.

Every time something undesired or unwanted happens in your life, stop for a second.

That event was meant to happen in your life so that you can overcome it, grow as a person, and become stronger so that the next one won’t be so challenging.

So why think about it as a bad thing and let it get to you and stress you?

Hard times create strong people.

So you’re going to want more of those hard times in your life so you become stronger, right?

Don’t just be OK with everything, create more difficult challenges for yourself, as for more difficult situations for yourself, and be eager to face whatever comes no matter how hard it is.

That’s how you become a better version of yourself, where you’re not depending on what happens on the outside to react on the inside.

That’s how you become resilient and confident that you’re going to be ok no matter what because you know that whatever happens, you’re going to be able to keep going.

Self-awareness and peace of mind are your superpowers.

Use them to not let external things get to you anymore.